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Date: 2008-05-16 06:52 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile]
It's Sahra, As in Vant's Sahra. Hello!

Date: 2008-05-17 01:29 am (UTC)From: [identity profile]
Hellos! You are hereby added.

Date: 2008-06-19 07:44 am (UTC)From: [identity profile]
I can't send you an email because of your profile settings, so I'll have to inquire here: what did I do to result in being de-friended? Your LJ friends are your prerogative, obviously, but if I did something to offend I'd like to know where I crossed the line. Please message me and let me know what's going on - I'm pretty bewildered.

Date: 2008-06-19 10:21 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile]
What? That conversation never happened. No one tried to "bring me into" anything. I called Z because he'd called me while I was still in Indiana to apologize for everything that had happened back in January and to update me on his life. I had no cell phone reception there and due to obligations with school, I didn't have time to call him back until yesterday afternoon.

Nowhere over the course of the two hour conversation did he try to "bring me into" anything, let alone anything involving you. Yes, I did verify that he'd met you and seen Nic (as I'd learned from your LJ), but that was part and parcel of being surprised that he was still living here. I was under the impression that he'd moved to San Diego. But the words you quoted were *never* spoken. What confuses me even further is how you were quoted "my" part of the conversation when I was on the phone with Z alone, and I was not placed on speakerphone at any point.

Regardless, I'm sorry that you believe that this happened and that you felt violated, especially because it was needless. I don't expect you to take my words at face value; I've been on this end of things before and I know that isn't going to happen. At this point, due to the people and personalities involved, it's probably for the best that you've made a clear choice and that you stick to it. The last thing that I'm interested in, for either of us, is more drama, and the best way for me to avoid that is by quietly walking away.

Thank you for the pleasant friendship and I wish you all the best in your future endeavors.



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